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    Dec 12 2022 Focus on the Family with Jim Daly
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    Understanding the Hot Buttons in Your Marriage

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    Understanding the Hot Buttons in Your Marriage

    Date: Dec 12, 2022

    Guests: Dr. Bob and Mrs. Jenni Paul

    Dr. Bob Paul and his wife Jenni explain how seemingly innocent disagreements can spiral into a major argument because of unidentified personal hot buttons that trigger primal reactions that are out of proportion to the issue at hand.

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